How to recognize teen drug use

As parents, we say that we want to know everything about our children but we are often uncomfortable or choose to ignore certain attitudes and behaviors in hopes of preserving peace in the family. We rationalize to ourselves that it is just a phase our teenagers are going through and will grow out of. By doing this we often overlook the warning signs that identify teen drug use.<br /><br /><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong>How to Recognize the Signs of Teen Drug Use</strong></span><br /><ol><li>Observe the appearance and personal hygiene of your teen. Consider whether it has changed. Drug abusers often stop caring about their appearance and personal hygiene.</li><li>Monitor school grades of your teen. Drug abusers lose the ability to focus and their grades begin to drop.</li><li>Question unexplained weight loss in your teen. Drug abusers often experience weight loss. Determine if your child has been ill or recently began a new physical activity or diet. If not, weight loss is certainly a cause for concern.</li><li>Discover who your teen is friends with. Drug abusers often change friends because their old friends don't understand or approve of their drug use.</li><li>Examine the spending habits of your teen. Ask yourself if your teen suddenly needs extra money for lunch, school activities and such. Drug abusers can never get enough and need more and more money to support their habit.</li><li>Scrutinize any sneaky, deceptive behavior of your teen, like lying about where she is going and who she is with. Drug abusers know that drug use in unacceptable, especially to parents so they try to hide any and all evidence.</li></ol><strong><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Tips & Warnings:</span></strong><br /><ul><li>If any of these warning signs seem to apply to your teen it is time for you, as a parent, to take a closer look.</li><li>If several of these warning signs apply to your teen, intervention is necessary immediately.</li><li>Teen drug use often begins months, or even years, before parents actually become aware of it.</li><li>The consequences of teen drug use can be devastating, possibly even fatal.</li></ul>

How to recognize teen drug use

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October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs04iAZGnE2YbT7UxrP_5X6evn8kTv56YFv7OwpikTb7XX1TEEjAPR_oivDEQYr6s6s__qAK5IkSpmTQpg3XWtxKENmmNqGkQOKfLtP1FjJ7JVStBjZsC1TdKDqecnskC-69SEsyM4o_ye/s1600/dmv.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" kca="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs04iAZGnE2YbT7UxrP_5X6evn8kTv56YFv7OwpikTb7XX1TEEjAPR_oivDEQYr6s6s__qAK5IkSpmTQpg3XWtxKENmmNqGkQOKfLtP1FjJ7JVStBjZsC1TdKDqecnskC-69SEsyM4o_ye/s1600/dmv.jpg" /></a>Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) evolved from the "Day of Unity" in October 1981 conceived by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. The intent was to connect advocates across the nation who were working to end violence against women and their children. The Day of Unity soon became an entire week devoted to a range of activities conducted at the local, state, and national levels.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"></div><br /><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">The activities conducted were as varied and diverse as the program sponsors but had common themes: mourning those who have died because of domestic violence, celebrating those who have survived, and connecting those who work to end violence. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div>In October 1987, the first Domestic Violence Awareness Month was observed. That same year marks the initiation of the first national domestic violence toll-free hotline. In 1989 the U.S. Congress passed Public Law 101-112 designating October of that year as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Such legislation has passed every year since with NCADV providing key leadership in this effort. Each year, the Day of Unity is celebrated the first Monday of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.<br /><br /><br /><br />

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

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GATE Instructor Training

<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCRuk0Nvbx3UFMhQ5MJlGfC3bxHWHMv6MQdlNN4dJhPqlQFJEBrpxMYXkf1zVl9dN2QEN4jGDLUSCss91EKzqrV7lK9ecCtOtaBZNRUxBD5ldXz8V5KMYmYhMQUExdAvoQpxb2FlMNVHMf/s1600/new-york-city.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; height: 100px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; width: 132px;"><img border="0" hca="true" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCRuk0Nvbx3UFMhQ5MJlGfC3bxHWHMv6MQdlNN4dJhPqlQFJEBrpxMYXkf1zVl9dN2QEN4jGDLUSCss91EKzqrV7lK9ecCtOtaBZNRUxBD5ldXz8V5KMYmYhMQUExdAvoQpxb2FlMNVHMf/s200/new-york-city.jpg" width="131" /></a>The Gang Awareness Training Education Program will be coming to New York City in <span style="color: yellow;">November 2011</span>. If you are interested in a prevention program concentrating on gangs, drugs and youth violence, this is the program to you. The training will be in the Bronx and spacing is extremely limited. For further details follow this <a href="http://bit.ly/ex6BUO">link.</a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisaQuC3-_a2TXJj1mL7RzCsCQvzt7vUbsdHNIeDnooUNr72XqKGCt9nBtQ3rcIJ8A-aNAUnoTTpG92XYfxO_adO2H67rwVyB6avmwOkyxHBXf4rcMwEi5TMzMwpuk4ZFx0zED9tod8geYC/s1600/RADICALNEW+copy.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; height: 90px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em; width: 156px;"><img border="0" hca="true" height="125" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisaQuC3-_a2TXJj1mL7RzCsCQvzt7vUbsdHNIeDnooUNr72XqKGCt9nBtQ3rcIJ8A-aNAUnoTTpG92XYfxO_adO2H67rwVyB6avmwOkyxHBXf4rcMwEi5TMzMwpuk4ZFx0zED9tod8geYC/s200/RADICALNEW+copy.gif" width="200" /></a>The GATE Curriculum offers three distinct age groups. GATE Kids - grades K-4, GATE - grades 5-8, and RADICAL - High School. The program curriculum's have been used in education, after school, religious, youth group, probation and clinical settings. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong>Interested in Hosting a Training?</strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAzfY_bWTlbuLOuEXKMyOCr6QP1iGk_U-fLhDzHd9lnxAR9ysIYxjIgcXY0-0XU5oBy8i__zPBABaoGyUOf-zRnAK3hT3SScTR7-Stdt0XWOAFCgc6oBlUn_iWyWgguRvPhPx1_1TaswXs/s1600/GATE+Kids+%25232.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" hca="true" height="126" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjAzfY_bWTlbuLOuEXKMyOCr6QP1iGk_U-fLhDzHd9lnxAR9ysIYxjIgcXY0-0XU5oBy8i__zPBABaoGyUOf-zRnAK3hT3SScTR7-Stdt0XWOAFCgc6oBlUn_iWyWgguRvPhPx1_1TaswXs/s200/GATE+Kids+%25232.gif" width="200" /></a>We are also looking for groups who would like to be host organizations for additional trainings in 2012. The advantages for host agencies is that costs for training are significantly reduced, no travel fees for staff, discounts for holding training and increased collaboration with other prevention/intervention groups your community. If you would be interested in hosting training please contact us by completing the form attached to this <a href="http://www.openthegate.org/pdf/onsiterequestform.pdf">link</a>.  </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong>On site training requirements:</strong></div><ul><li><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Minimum of 20 people required for training.*</div></li><li><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Training facility that can hold a minumum of 40 people.</div></li><li><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">A desire to have outstanding training.</div></li></ul><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;">*The minimum number of training must be met before their is a gaurantee that the training will not be cancelled. Organizations can pool together the 20 minimum with other groups to reach that minimum number required.</span></div>

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What motivates you in Law Enforcement?

<strong><em><span style="font-size: x-small;">Written by Sgt. Robert Tornabene</span></em></strong><br /><br /><br />In over the period of nineteen months I authored a newsletter for our patrol officers and supervisors as a training tool. My goal was to spark some thought, develop some personnel and inspire others about our commitment to the vocation of law enforcement.  But as I began gathering information for an edition of the newsletter, which is titled "Beyond the Stop", it became apparent that my motivations for providing this newsletter were irrelevant to the officers. <br /><br />For those officers in my department who have seen the roll call videos on officer safety, particularly the Sean Hannity video about the increase in attacks on officers. In particular those attacks at the later half of last year and into the beginning of 2010, you know how serious I take each and everyone’s safety here. My goal, each shift is to send my officer home safely to their  family and loved ones, as should every supervisors.<br /><br />Yet with difficult times facing all of us, either financially, personally or the recent issues facing the department asa whole professionally we all have a responsibilities. When I began to write this newsletter it was a really dreary day, wet,rainy and cold. Not exactly the type of weather that makes a person feel happy or want to be outside in it, I recall a comment that one of your asked me, how do you stay motivated. I don't need to reference who the officer was, just simply that the question was asked. My answer was not a simple one. But I will try to paraphrase it for simplicity sake. Everyone get’sfrustrated at times, difficulty is part of life and yet I must continue. My father surprised me one day with some simple philosophy.<br /><br />I was having a discussion with my father and talking about the cold and crappy weather we have been experiencing. My father related a fact about the month of March that had an entirely different spin on it for me. He said, “March has the largest number of temperature swings in it than any other month.” When I heard that I paused and realized, “Wow, from my dad that is an almost philosophical statement.” My dad is not much of a deep thinker, but in my dad’s own way he was telling me that it will get better. We know it will be warmer, soon, with rain, comes cleaner roads, greener grass and eventually warmer and sunny weather.<br /><br />Back to the question that one of my officer's posed, I turn to a comment that I have sitting on my desk near my kids picture, it is by Albert Einstein. “In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.” Since the day I read that line it has been a center piece to keep me looking forward. In times when we are all faced with tough financial times, family stresses, personal health issues or professional angst we need to look towards living our values in our lives. <br /><br /><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8DXXsyicgrYl6ugKSIq6-DHTih8cdyohP0unVwVgPXGQCYLi7tJXwXY_9HYs7il6mWqhDnhG_qD8MlLMaI2NF2z776r_bo4P6MtVtyNBuHomZLMY-IOy2cVjbtEq5WPLCfyz_m7eLZmgM/s1600/chicago-police%252520car.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8DXXsyicgrYl6ugKSIq6-DHTih8cdyohP0unVwVgPXGQCYLi7tJXwXY_9HYs7il6mWqhDnhG_qD8MlLMaI2NF2z776r_bo4P6MtVtyNBuHomZLMY-IOy2cVjbtEq5WPLCfyz_m7eLZmgM/s1600/chicago-police%252520car.jpg" /></a>In today’s very competitive world, whether it in the private sector or public sector how can I succeed where there are so many factors influencing my success that I can not control. What do I mean when I talk about values, most of us think moralistic values—trust, integrity, accountability. But we have moved away from pragmatic values—customer service, innovation, performance. But values no matter which ones you pick are meaningless if you do not live up to them.</div><br /><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">In the digitally connected hyper paced world we live in, what we say we stand for or what we say we do are without value if we do not set ourselves apart in how we do our profession. How we communicate, how we interact and how we treat others is what will set you apart from others. Being a Police Officer is a profession. Each and everyone of us chose this profession for one reason or another. One factor is for sure that becoming rich off of this profession was not a motivator. Why you chose this profession is a personal issue for you, but some of the common reasons include, “enjoy helping others.”, “making a difference”, “you wanted to serve” etc. The great thing about this profession and it is a profession is why you chose it does not matter, but rather because you chose it that makes you special, in comparison to others in society.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Setting yourself apart is a key value in your own psyche whether you believe so or not. However, continuing to be that person you were when you chose this profession is an entirely different thing. For those of you who have tested from other departments, you know the stress there is in having to take another psychological examination. Many candidates who are already law enforcement officer’s at another agency do not typically pass another psychological test, particularly after being on the job for an extended period of time. Why? Because your personality changes, you become jaded and influenced by the experiences you have, the tragedy, disappointments and outrage that you experience in your day to day interactions. As a result, you have been forever, irrevocably changed.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Still not sure, think of this! What are your answers to the following questions? When you go out to a restaurant, who sits with the back to the door? You or your spouse? How often do you catch yourself sizing up people when you encounter them, looking for weapons, signs of recognition, or threatening behavior? Do you find yourself hanging out with only law enforcement type people as friends? These are just some of the indicators to say that you have changed. It is not to say it is because there is something wrong with you. Simply that you are a different person, flavored by changes that were influenced by the type of profession that you are in.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">We again experienced another line of duty death on November 26, 2010 in Chicago Police Officer Michael Flisk. Ofc. Flisk was a evidence technician processing a crime scene from burglary when he and  a retired Housing Authority Officer (the burglary victim) were shot and killed. This is the fifth officer killed in the line of duty in just six months.  But to recall another officer who died this year Chicago Police Sergeant Haymaker. Here is a man, who had strong religious beliefs, strong family ties and strong community roots. I wanted to relate a story about Sgt. Haymaker as it was related by a Commander from the Chicago Police Department. Sgt. Haymaker was a supervisor on a call of a infant, new born located in a pile of trash, possibly an abandoned baby. Sgt. Haymaker, located a blanket for the now obviously dead baby and wrapped the baby in the blanket and transported the baby in his arms to the hospital. When the mother or family could not be located, Sgt. Haymaker through his church paid for and handled all the arrangements of the wake, funeral and burial of the baby. His compassion and reverence for life was extraordinary. Sgt. Haymaker didn’t have to do anything at all, but his humanity and his strong moral convictions brought Sgt. Haymaker to a high level of involvement! Sgt. Haymaker was truly putting a high value on his definition of service, the service to the infant’s soul.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">It is extremely easy to be positive and motivated when times are good, but when it seems that everything in life is not going well keeping that positive attitude is tough. Sometimes we need simple reminders, like the example my father gave me about the weather in March. At other times, it takes effort on your part to try and make the best of the situation at hand. Have you ever heard of “misery loves company?”. How true it is, when you are in bad situations and tough times, avoid being around those people who are simply going to “moan” and “groan” about what aches them. Negativity fuels the fire within everyone.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">When we are down or caught off guard it spreads like a virus. Imagery! When we were all in Field Training we all utilized imagery in going through our tasks, visualizing the activity. Such as how we are going to respond to a dangerous confrontation. Using your mind to help you over come those things that truly may not</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">matter can improve your outlook on life. For those who have been in sports or read about professional athletes, in order to overcome plateaus in your career or game you have to visualize the task and focus your mind and body on overcoming that obstacle. You can do the same thing with your law enforcement career as well.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Lists. Make a list of things you enjoy doing. This list is a personal listing of everything in your life that actually makes you feel good. For example, smiles on your children’s faces, mom’s homemade cooking, the time you made that really outstanding arrest. Go through your list and pick something off of the list that brings a smile to your face or makes you feel good about yourself. Then do it.</div><br /><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">When you look good your feel good. It is extremely important for you to always look as good as you can. One of the most important aspects of dealing with poor morale and self image in the military is to maintain a clean and healthy appearance. It is important to remain clean shaven, showered, hair groomed and styled, fingernails: cut, clipped or painted. Attention to your personal appearance helps you deal with difficult times.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Fitness! Physical fitness or activity is paramount to maintaining a strong healthy attitude. Exercise helps to dispel nervous energy, relax muscles and release valuable endorphins into the body which improves the mood. In addition, physical fitness or activity releases tension, reduces the risk to high blood pressure and heart attack. Get out and get active!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Be part of the solution, not part of the problem. If you have suggestions about improvements, special skills or knowledge that can improve your working environment then speak up. Make suggestions, offer to become involved in a particular aspect of what you are interested in. This not only makes you feel good about yourself in helping others, but it makes your job on day to day capacity much more interesting.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Those who see the end are immovable. They always have a light in the darkness. Sometimes the only difference between the incredible success and the failure is the ability to endure. Many times we have the right idea, the right plan and the right opportunity. But if we do not see it through, all the way to the end, we never know! We are left in that vague tormenting uncertainty, was the problem me or the problem the plan. We must always be ready to walk away from a bad plan. We need to know when it is time to quit. A bad </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">plan will never work regardless of how long we work hard at it. A person of character does not equate a bad plan with being a bad leader. Great leaders know when to walk away.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Do whatever it takes to keep your goal alive in your heart. The mark of a winner is not that he never falls or fails. He or she just keeps getting up. Maybe all you can do today is show up. But that’s better than any other option. The person who keeps showing up eventually shows up at the right place at the right time.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1mOkhUuYAkTFiNXD_Y4VqKQ2YBbuhuGtg1DEkxrgb5nsk0wlmo__PiLSvJ5IVQvPMwlQw1J29HZA9HaZiwxypYLtYTajUXWJKbjQHIO8tnzdlrYr1sn8xb4lcsy1QW9TGKiyLldGB6Yef/s1600/Chicago_police_car_horiz.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1mOkhUuYAkTFiNXD_Y4VqKQ2YBbuhuGtg1DEkxrgb5nsk0wlmo__PiLSvJ5IVQvPMwlQw1J29HZA9HaZiwxypYLtYTajUXWJKbjQHIO8tnzdlrYr1sn8xb4lcsy1QW9TGKiyLldGB6Yef/s320/Chicago_police_car_horiz.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br /></div>

What motivates you in Law Enforcement?

Written by Sgt. Robert Tornabene In over the period of nineteen months I authored a newsletter for our patrol officers and supervisors as a ...

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